Thomas Jay Randall
August 1, 1935 - March 7, 2012
Thomas Jay Randall was born August 1, 1935, to Doris and Mac
Randall in Toledo, Ohio. Two years later he became big brother to
William Randall. When he passed away March 7, 2012, he had been preceded
by his family.
Seems simple. A man is born, lives his life on Earth, and in a natural
order follows his parents into the next world. Not really.
In 1951 Tom met Dlorah Kay Davis. They married September 2, 1956, in
Durango, Colorado. Their marriage was an adventure that carried them
from Durango, to Farmington, New Mexico to Hobbs, New Mexico, to Kermit
and Odessa, Texas to Altus, Oklahoma, and to where they found their home
in Farmers Branch, Texas in 1965. Through 56 years of marriage,
excepting 10 years of divorce, they accomplished much in their family:
Michael Kent and his wife Denise; Michelle Anne and her children
Courtney, Danielle, and Michael; Daniel Davis, his former wife Tommy Sue
and children Sarah Rene and Scott Thomas; Douglas Mac and wife Raynette
and their daughters Heather Marie and Andrea; and David Ray, his wife
Drinda, and their children Richard Lyell, Forestt Christian, and David
Ryan. They also have four great-grandchildren Hunter, Nicholas, Justice,
and Rachel. Tom and Kay continued to enjoy a close relationship to Tom’s
sister-in-law Drusilla Randall and their niece and nephews Cathy and her
husband Jim Schampers; Bill and Sonya Randall, Jr.; and Mike and Kathy
Randall. Further, Tom is remembered by his grandnieces and grandnephews
Tony and Genera Manning and their children Sherica, Edward and Nathan;
Michelle and Raul Diaz and their children Maleah and Matthew; Matt and
Terri Schampers and their child Julie; Chelsey Randall, Eric and Megan
Vasquez, Kristin and Joe Salcido and their child Ava; Laurin (Lolly) and
Kenneth Malone and their child Monique; Ashley and Victor Sanchez and
their Children Evolett, Syprus, and Sage. Though Tom and Kay owned and
operated Texas Jewelry, these were the jewels that adorned their life
together.
Tom began his working life as a grease monkey in a gas station in
Durango, Colorado. There he met Bob Schmitz. Bob took Tom out of the
Texaco station, dressed him in a corduroy sports coat and put him to
work at Bob Schmitz’s Men’s Wear. There Bob taught him men’s
furnishings. There he learned style and the art of sales. He soon moved
to Dunlop’s department stores, where he was a trouble-shooter for stores
in crisis. When he moved to furniture sales he began selling diamond
rings on the side. He traveled throughout Oklahoma and Northeast Texas
at this time. Soon he asked Kay to come look at Dallas and a small
jewelry store that was for sale. This was the birth of Texas Jewelry.
After 46 years as a family owned enterprise, it’s still in operation as
a living legacy of Tom Randall, businessman.
Tom defined the term entrepreneur. He was a speculator who believed in
the adage, “There is a buyer for everything under the sun.” In addition
to Texas Jewelry, he speculated in several businesses. His favorite was
his car business. He collected and restored unique cars then sold them
to make room for more. He was a shark on e-Bay. Look for his sales and
auctions on today! Another business was real estate. Tom was always on
the look-out for a project. He always made something out of nothing.
These were his toys. He was excited to make his moves in each area every
day.
He loved babies, boating, dogs, and cats. He collected Jim Beam
commemorative bottles, even people; you name it, he collected it!
If there was a dark spot in his life, Tom would say it was his desire to
drink. Alcoholism was a disease that robbed Tom, but it also gave him
his life back. In 1987 he accepted that he was powerless over his urge
to drink and sought help from Bill Wilson’s group: Alcoholics Anonymous.
From that time forward, Tom was embraced and in turn embraced his
extended family, AA. In January 2012, he celebrated 25 years of
sobriety. He graciously gave his time and himself. Some people, when
they turn their life around, are quietly grateful. Not Tom R. He gave of
himself every day, sometimes three times a day to reach out to those who
risked asking for help. He would quietly get up, comb his hair, refresh
his cologne, put on his gimme hat, and go. Even on holidays, he would
leave the entire Randall clan to receive his strength and in turn give
it to another to find the inner strength it takes to endure and
eventually regain a healthy life. Tom sponsored a group of fine people.
These, his extended family, will continue to represent and be a tribute
to the ideals of AA: sane sobriety, friendship, acceptance, guidance,
and unconditional love.
Thomas Jay Randall went by many names: Tom, A H, Tommy, Tommy J, Poppa
Tom, Tom R., Friend, Sponsor, but his most treasured names were Pop and
Poppa. Regardless of what you call Tom Randall, everyone who met him
respected his acceptance, wisdom, gentle kindness, and compassion.
A visitation will be held on Wednesday, March 14, 2012 from 6:00 to 8:00
pm in the Brooks Family Chapel of the North Dallas Funeral Home, 2710
Valley View Lane, Farmers Branch, Texas 75234.
Funeral service will be on Thursday, March 15, 2012 at 2:00 pm in the
Brooks Family Chapel of the North Dallas Funeral Home, 2710 Valley View
Lane, Farmers Branch, Texas 75234. Burial will follow at
Keenan Cemetery on
Valley View Lane in Farmers Branch, Texas.
In lieu of flowers the family requests donations be made to Magdalene
House, Shelter Ministries or Nexus Treatment Center. |