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Shirley Jean (Demus)
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Born
and reared in Dallas, Texas, Shirley Demus Tarpley, AKA Sister and Mother
Tarpley, believes in a commitment to God, family, church, education and the
community. She grew up in a home that consisted of her godly parents (Mr. Lloyd
David and Mrs. Cedella Baker Demus), four sisters and three brothers.
Sister Tarpley was educated in segregated schools in Dallas; she attended
elementary and middle schools, and in 1959 she graduated from Booker T.
Washington High School (known today as Booker T. Washington Arts Magnet in North
Dallas) which was one of only three African American High Schools in the Dallas
Independent School District (DISD.)
She graduated from Prairie View A & M University, a Historical Black College &
University (HBCU) in Prairie View, Texas, with a Bachelors of Science Degree in
Business Education and a Minor Degree in Economics.
After graduation from college, she married and began working for Collins Radio
Company (the name was changed to Rockwell International) as a Production
Secretary. The company was contracted by the United States’ government to
produce the communication system for their first space ship launched by the U.S.
Space Program. This is one of the highlights in her life, because she received
the highest security clearance from the federal government to work on the
project.
In 1965 she and the late Mr. Lorenzo Tarpley moved to Carrollton, Texas, and
purchased their first home, which at the time was a small suburban town of only
9,000 plus residents; today its population is approximately 150,000 and Blacks
comprised of approximately six percent of its population; it was still
geographically segregated, making the Tarpley’s the first Black family to
integrate the “all-white” section of town.
Sister Tarpley integrated R. L. Turner High School (RLT), the only high school
in the Carrollton-Farmers Branch I.S.D. (C-FBISD) at the time. With the
exception of her first year of teaching at RLT, she was voted one of the Top 10
Teachers by each senior class until she transferred to the new high school.
In 1978 she integrated Newman Smith High School (NSHS) the second high school
built in C-FBISD; she remained at NSHS until her retirement in 1996.
She and her husband had two children, a son, Jarrell Edwin, a graduate of RLT
and the University of North Texas University (UNT) in Denton, Texas. Jarrell was
a standout, award winning football player and attended UNT on a full football
scholarship. He had the honor of being on the prestigious and highly covered
Texas All Star Football Team from the North; only 30 are selected from all of
the high schools in Texas each year. He lives in Venus, Texas with his wife,
Cleo Spann Tarpley, they have one son.
Her daughter Sheila Donnise is a graduate of RLT and Texas Woman’s University (TWU)
in Denton, Texas, was a standout cheerleader in Peewee, Junior High and Senior
High Schools (she integrated all three cheerleading squads.) Sheila was honored
by the RLT Football Team as their personal Sweetheart her junior and her senor
years. She was the first Black and only cheerleader honored with this title two
years in a row, and this honor stands today. Sheila attended TWU on an academic
scholarship. She is married to William (Bill) Lott; they have three children,
and they live in Carrollton, Texas. Sheila is also a minister in the gospel.
Sister Tarpley is the proud grandmother of four: Tyanna Donnise, David Edward,
and Philip Immanual Lott and Deven Jaquan Tarpley.
In 1991 she became the first Black female to integrate and serve on the
Carrollton City Council. In 1993 she ran unopposed for council and received the
second highest votes in the history of Carrollton’s elections. This record
stands to this day. In 1995 she became the first Black to serve as Mayor Pro Tem
for the City of Carrollton.
Sister Tarpley received her Master’s Certificate in Dispute Resolution
(Mediation, Negotiation, and Arbitration) from Southern Methodist University
(SMU) in Dallas, Texas.
In 2001 she became the first Religious Editor for the North Dallas Gazette
weekly newspaper in Plano, Texas - "North Dallas' Weekly Paper of Choice." She
continues to serve in that position.
Her parents taught her to take pride in her heritage, to strive for the best in
everything you do, to accept all people as they are, and to love and trust God
above everybody and everything else. She continues to live by the teachings of
her late parents and has always shared this philosophy with her children, her
family, her church, school and her community.
Sister Tarpley is a proud member of Bethel Bible Fellowship Church in
Carrollton, Texas where her spiritual guidance is lead by Dr. Terrance Woodson,
Senior Pastor and Sister Ve Woodson is the First Lady; the Associates pastors
are Larry (Chap) Gardner and Brenda Patterson
Throughout Sister Tarpley’s 75 years she has received many awards, accolades and
“firsts” in her teaching profession and life:
1. The six child born of eight children, she was the first to go and graduate
from college.
2. Personal Secretary for her Church’s Senior Pastor.
3. Church Announcer.
4. Sunday School Superintendent at church.
5. Sunday School Teacher at church.
6. 1993, KDFW-TV, Channel 4, selected Mrs. Tarpley as their first “Class Act”
Teacher in the Dallas-Fort Worth (DFW) Metroplex.
7. First Black Board Member of Carrollton's Park Board.
8. Executive Board of the City of Carrollton Bi-Centennial Commission.
9. Executive Board Member of Carrollton’s Peewee Football Association.
10. Executive Board Member of Carrollton’s Peewee Cheerleader Association.
11. Peewee Team Mother for many of Carrollton’s football and cheerleader teams.
12. Executive Board Member of the Parents, Teachers & Students
Associations (PTSAs) at Central Elementary School, Dewitt Perry Jr. Middle
School and R. L. Turner High School.
13. Senior Class Sponsor at Newman Smith High School (NSHS).
14. Junior Cheerleader Team Sponsor at NSHS.
15. PTSA Member at NSHS.
16. Co-Sponsor of NSHSs ACT-SO Organization of the NAACP.
17. Sponsor of Black History Programs in the Carrollton-Farmers Branch I.S.D.
18. Instrumental in bringing the first Black History Class to C-FBISD.
19. Instrumental in C-FBISD honoring Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. with the
schools being closed for his federal holiday each year.
20. Executive Board Member of Carrollton’s Country Fair Committee
21. Honored for contributions to C-FBISD by Christ Community Connection
(CCC), a non-profit community organization in Carrollton. |
ARTICLE
Sis. Shirley Tarpley is honored in celebration of
Black History Month
This year Bethel Bible Fellowship decided to honor members of its
congregation by highlighting their contributions to Black History. One
of the members selected for honoring for her community service is Sis.
Shirley Tarpley. On Sunday Feb. 22 the church will honor another member,
Mr. Scott Hunter who lived in Selma, Alabama during the march shown in
the movie Selma.
Although Sister Shirley Tarpley is a relatively new member of Bethel
Bible Fellowship, I mentioned to Dr. Terrance Woodson, Senior Pastor of
our church that she is so charming , he asked me if I knew she had been
on the City Council of Carrollton. He pointed me to article written
about her by the local NAACP. There I saw her many firsts and exclaimed
to Pastor Woodson, “She is living history, what a great person for our
children and congregation to hear from. A living witness of history.”
The presentation included a video interview allowing Sis. Tarpley to
share her story to the church, family, and friends. Always a delightful
storyteller. in the video Sis. Tarpley shared a story about what would
happen if a teacher had to call her parents because she misbehaved at
school:
This year Bethel Bible Fellowship decided to honor members of its
congregation by highlighting their contributions to Black History. One
of the members selected for honoring for her community service is Sis.
Shirley Tarpley. On Sunday Feb. 22 the church will honor another member,
Mr. Scott Hunter who lived in Selma, Alabama during the march shown in
the movie Selma.
Although Sister Shirley Tarpley is a relatively new member of Bethel
Bible Fellowship, I mentioned to Dr. Terrance Woodson, Senior Pastor of
our church that she is so charming , he asked me if I knew she had been
on the City Council of Carrollton. He pointed me to article written
about her by the local NAACP. There I saw her many firsts and exclaimed
to Pastor Woodson, “She is living history, what a great person for our
children and congregation to hear from. A living witness of history.”
The presentation included a video interview allowing Sis. Tarpley to
share her story to the church, family, and friends. Always a delightful
storyteller. in the video Sis. Tarpley shared a story about what would
happen if a teacher had to call her parents because she misbehaved at
school:
“I only said, it would be very bad for you, but I didn’t say
how it would be bad, now I want to say for all Demus children, if a
teacher called our parents about bad conduct, we would get at least four
beatings, the first was because had brought shame to the name “Demus”,
acting a fool in school, we were always told that we were given that
name as a privilege to be respected and worn with pride and honor, as if
we asked to be born! (Many times I wanted to say, “Can’t I just give the
name back? But, I did not want to die right on the spot!)
The 2nd beating was because we led the teacher to think that we had not
been taught how to act in public, another big no, no!
The 3rd beating was we failed to show proper respect to those who had
authority over us when we were not at home.
The 4th beating was because we lost our self-respect, you must respect
yourself before others could respect you.
The 5th beating was because we had caused them to whip us and they were
already tired from working all day making a decent living for us and
this made our parents really angry.
And, maybe the 6th and last beating for the infraction in school was for
just general principle (GP) they said.
Now keep in mind, these beating would last for two or more days,
according to how tired out parents were.
Therefore, if we acted a “fool in school, as our parents would say, it
was better to beg the teacher not to call home, we were more than
willing to do anything they wanted us to do and to gladly take any
punishment, just don’t call our parents!”
Friends and family, including (back, L to R) Carrollton-Farmers Branch
Superintendant Dr. Bobby Burns, Carrollton City Councilmember Steve
Babick, Keimone Davis, Zuri Davis, CFB Boardmember Nancy Cline, Carl
Goff, Carrollton City Councilmember Doug Hrbacek, (front, L to R) Tina
Burns, Peggi Babick, CFB Board Asst. Secretary Richard Fleming,
Carrollton City Council candidate Young Sung, Xavier Mottley, Elizabeth
Mottley, Jarrell Tarpley, Shelia Tarpley Lott and Tyanna Lott, join
(front, center) Sister Shirley Tarpley and youngest grandson Philip Lott
in commemorating Tarpley’s contributions to education and the community.
Born and reared in Dallas, Texas, Sister Shirley Demus Tarpley
believes in a commitment to God, family, church, education and the
community. She grew up in a home that consisted of her godly parents
(Mr. Lloyd David and Mrs. Cedella Baker Demus), four sisters and three
brothers.
Sister Tarpley was educated in segregated schools in Dallas; she
attended elementary and middle schools, and in 1959 she graduated from
Booker T. Washington High School (known today as Booker T. Washington
Arts Magnet in North Dallas) which was one of only three African
American High Schools in the Dallas Independent School District (DISD.)
She graduated from Prairie View A & M University, a Historical Black
College & University (HBCU) in Prairie View, Texas, with a Bachelors of
Science Degree in Business Education and a Minor Degree in Economics.
After graduation from college, she married and began working for Collins
Radio Company (the name was changed to Rockwell International) as a
Production Secretary. The company was contracted by the United States’
government to produce the communication system for our first space ship
launched by the U.S. Space Program. This is one of the highlights in her
life, because she received the highest security clearance from the
federal government to work on the project.
In 1965 she and the late Mr. Lorenzo Tarpley moved to Carrollton, Texas,
and purchased their first home, which at the time was a small suburban
town of only 9,000 plus residents; today its population is approximately
130,000 and Blacks comprised of approximately two percent of its
population; it was still geographically segregated, making the Tarpley’s
the first Black family to integrate the “all-white” section of town.
Sister Tarpley integrated R. L. Turner High School (RLT), the only high
school in the Carrollton-Farmers Branch I.S.D. (C-FBISD) at the time.
With the exception of her first year of teaching at RLT, she was voted
one of the Top 10 Teachers by each senior class until she transferred to
the new high school. She integrated Newman Smith High School (NSHS) in
1978, the second high school built in C-FBISD; she remained at NSHS
until her retirement in 1996.
She and her husband had two children, a son, Jarrell Edwin, a graduate
of RLT and The University of North Texas University (UNT) in Denton,
Texas. Jarrell was a standout, award winning football player and
attended UNT on a full football scholarship. He had the honor of being
on the prestigious and highly covered Texas All Star Football Team from
the North; only 30 are selected from all of the high schools in Texas
each year. He lives in Venus, Texas, with his wife, Cleo Spann Tarpley,
they have one son.
Her daughter Sheila Donnise is a graduate of RLT and Texas Woman’s
University (TWU) in Denton, Texas, was a standout cheerleader in Peewee,
Junior High and Senior High Schools (she integrated all three
cheerleading squads.) Sheila was honored by the RLT Football Team as
their personal Sweetheart her junior and her senor years. She was the
first Black and only cheerleader honored with this title two years in a
row, and this honor stands today. Sheila attended TWU on an academic
scholarship. She is married to William (Bill) Lott; they have three
children, and they live in Carrollton, Texas. Sheila is also a minister
in the gospel.
Sister Tarpley is the proud grandmother of four: Tyanna Donnise, David
Edward, and Philip Immanual Lott and Deven Jaquan Tarpley.
In 1991 she became the first Black female to integrate and serve on the
Carrollton City Council. In 1993 she ran unopposed for council and
received the second highest votes in the history of Carrollton’s
elections. This record stands to this day. In 1995 she became the first
Black to serve as Mayor Pro Tem for the City of Carrollton.
Sister Tarpley received her Master’s Certificate in Dispute Resolution
(Mediation, Negotiation, and Arbitration) from Southern Methodist
University (SMU) in Dallas, Texas.
In 2001 she became the first Religious Editor for the North Dallas
Gazette weekly newspaper in Plano, Texas–“North Dallas” Weekly Paper of
Choice.” She continues to serve in that position.
Her parents taught her to take pride in her heritage, to strive for the
best in everything you do, to accept all people as they are, and to love
and trust God above everybody and everything else. She continues to live
by the teachings of her late parents and has always shared this
philosophy with her children, her family, her church, school and her
community.
A look back at the accomplishments and accolades of Sis. Shirley Tarpley
For over 40 years Sister Tarpley received many awards, accolades and
“firsts” in her teaching profession and life and they include:
1. Personal Secretary for her Church Senior Pastor.
2. Church Announcer.
3. Sunday School Superintendent at church.
4. Sunday School Teacher at church.
5. 1993, KDFW-TV, Channel 4, selected Mrs. Tarpley as their first “Class
Act” Teacher in the Dallas-Fort Worth (DFW) Metroplex.
6. First Black Board Member of Carrollton’s Park Board.
7. Executive Board of the City of Carrollton Bi-Centennial Commission.
8. Executive Board Member of Carrollton’s Peewee Football Association.
9. Executive Board Member of Carrollton’s Peewee Cheerleader
Association.
10. Peewee Team Mother for many of Carrollton’s football and cheerleader
teams.
11. Executive Board Member of the Parents, Teachers & Students
Associations (PTSAs) at Central Elementary School, Dewitt Perry Jr. High
School and R. L. Turner High School.
12. Senior Class Sponsor at Newman Smith High School (NSHS).
13. Junior Cheerleader Team Sponsor at NSHS.
14. PTSA Member at NSHS.
15. Co-Sponsor of NSHSs ACT-SO Organization of the NAACP.
16. Sponsor of Black History Programs in the Carrollton-Farmers Branch
I.S.D.
17. Instrumental in bringing the first Black History Class to C-FBISD.
18. Instrumental in C-FBISD honoring Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. with
the schools being closed for his federal holiday each year.
19. Executive Board Member of Carrollton’s Country Fair Committee
20. Honored for contributions to C-FBISD by Christ Community Connection
(CCC), a non-profit community organization in Carrollton. |
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OBITUARY
Obituary
for Shirley Demus Tarpley
Family, friends, and dignitaries will gather on Saturday, May
25, 2024, to celebrate the Honorable Shirley Jean Demus Tarpley
who transitioned to her heavenly home on Friday, May 10, 2024. -
Born and reared in Dallas, Texas, Shirley lived her life
committed to God, family, church, education, and community. She
grew up in a home with her godly parents, Lloyd David and
Cedella Baker Demus, along with four sisters and three brothers.
In 1959, Shirley Tarpley graduated from Booker T. Washington
High School, (presently recognized as Booker T. Washington High
School for the Performing and Visual Arts), a segregated school
at the time. During that time, Booker T. Washington High School
was one of three African American High schools in the Dallas
Independent School District (DISD). She graduated from Prairie
View A&M University, a Historical Black College & University (HBCU)
in Prairie View, Texas, with a Bachelor of Science Degree in
Business Education and a Minor Degree in Economics.
After graduating from college, she married and began working as
a Production Secretary for the Collins Radio Company
(subsequently named Rockwell International). The company was
contracted by the United States government to produce the
communication system for the first spaceship launched by the
U.S. Space Program. Working on the communications system was one
of the highlights in her life because she received the highest
security clearance from the Federal government to work on the
project.
In 1965, Shirley and the late Mr. Lorenzo Tarpley moved to
Carrollton, Texas, and purchased their first home, which at the
time was a small suburban town of only 9,000 plus residents.
Today Carrollton's population is approximately 150,000. At the
time, Black residents comprised about six percent of the city’s
population, which was geographically segregated. The Tarpley's
became the first Black family to integrate the "all-white"
section of town.
Shirley integrated R. L. Turner High School (RLT), the only high
school in the Carrollton Farmers Branch I.S.D. (C-FBISD) at the
time. Except for her first year of teaching at RLT, she was
voted one of the Top 10 Teachers by each senior class until she
transferred to the second high school built in CFBISD, Newman
Smith High School (NSHS). In 1978, she integrated NSHS, where
she remained until her retirement in 1996.
She and her husband had two children, a son, Jarrell, and a
daughter Sheila. Jarrell is married to Cleo Spann; they have one
son, Deven, and reside in Venus, Texas. Sheila is married to
William (Bill) Lott; they have three children - Tyanna, David,
and Philip – and they live in Carrollton, Texas.
In 1991 Shirley became the first Black female to integrate and
serve on the Carrollton City Council. In 1993 she ran unopposed
for city council and received the second highest votes in the
history of Carrollton’s elections. Her record stands to this
day. In 1995 she became the first Black American to serve as
Mayor Pro Tem for the City of Carrollton.
Shirley received her Master’s Certificate in Dispute Resolution
(Mediation, Negotiation, and Arbitration) from Southern
Methodist University in Dallas, Texas. In 2001, she became the
first Religious Editor for the North Dallas Gazette weekly
newspaper in Plano, Texas. Shirley’s parents taught her to take
pride in her heritage, to strive for the best in everything, to
accept people as they are, and to love and trust God above
everybody and everything else. She continued to live by the
teachings of her late parents and always shared this philosophy
with her children, family, church, school, and community.
Shirley was a proud member of Bethel Bible Fellowship Church in
Carrollton, Texas where Dr. Terrance Woodson is the Senior
Pastor and Bernadette Moore is the Associate Pastor. Throughout
Shirley Tarpley's life she received many awards, accolades, and
pioneering achievements:
• The sixth child born of eight children, she was the first to
attend and graduate from college.
• Church:
o Senior Pastor’s Personal Secretary.
o Announcer.
o Sunday School Superintendent.
o Sunday School Teacher.
• First “Class Act” Teacher in the Dallas-Fort Worth (DFW)
Metroplex, as selected by KDFW-TV, Channel 4 (1993).
• Carrollton Park’s First Black Board Member.
• First Black Executive Board Member of the
o City of Carrollton Bi-Centennial Commission.
o Carrollton’s Peewee Football Association.
o Carrollton’s Peewee Cheerleader Association.
o Parents, Teachers & Students Associations (PTSAs) at Central
Elementary
School, Dewitt Perry Jr. Middle School, and R. L. Turner High
School
o Carrollton’s Country Fair Committee
• Peewee Team Mother for many of Carrollton’s football and
cheerleader teams.
• Senior Class Sponsor at Newman Smith High School (NSHS).
• Junior Cheerleader Team Sponsor at NSHS.
• PTSA Member at NSHS.
• Co-Sponsor of NSHSs ACT-SO Organization of the NAACP.
• Sponsor of Black History Programs in the Carrollton-Farmers
Branch I.S.D (C FBISD).
• Instrumental in bringing the first Black History Class to C-FBISD.
• Instrumental in C-FBISD honoring Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
with the schools
being closed for his federal holiday each year.
• Honored for contributions to C-FBISD by Christ Community
Connection (CCC), a
non-profit community organization in Carrollton.
Visitation: Friday, May 24, 2024 – 12:00PM CT to 8:00 PM CT
Restland Funeral Home
13005 Greenville Ave
Dallas, TX 75243
(972) 238-7111
Homegoing Service: Saturday, May 25, 2024 – Visitation 9:00 AM
CT; Service 10:00 AM CT
First Baptist Church at The Fields
1401 Carrollton Pkwy
Carrollton, TX 75010
(972) 512-3800
Interment: Immediately Following Homegoing Service
Restland Funeral Home
13005 Greenville Ave
Dallas, TX 75243
(469) 925-1436
Repast: Immediately Following Interment
Bethel Bible Fellowship
1944 E Hebron Pkwy
Carrollton, TX 75007
(972) 4924300
Admirations:
We know everyone’s grief is personal as is the way you want to
pay respects to the Honorable
Shirley Demus Tarpley. Your prayers are always desired. If you
want to show your appreciation
in other ways:
Flowers/Plants:
Rembrandt Florist
13005 Greenville Ave
Dallas, TX 75243
(972) 761-8989
www.rembrandtflorist.com
Donation:
An academic scholarship is being created in the Honorable
Shirley Demus Tarpley’s name. The
scholarship will benefit high school graduating seniors
attending Prairie View A & M University,
majoring in Agriculture, Business, or Education. Details will
follow with instructions on how to
donate to the “Shirley Demus Tarpley Academic Scholarship
Program. |
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