OBITUARY
Liz
Volk (right) with sister
Barbara Volk Ibbotson |
Funeral is Saturday for Dallas choir teacher who
devoted life to students
03:01 PM CST on Friday, January 15, 2010
By SCOTT PARKS / The Dallas Morning News
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Liz Volk never married and never had children. Instead, she devoted her life to the high school choir students she encountered
during a 30-year teaching career in Dallas and Carrollton.
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Liz Volk (right) with sister Barbara Volk Ibbotson.
View larger Photography Photo store On Saturday, many of those former students –
perhaps hundreds – will gather at Highland Park United Methodist Church to sing
at a memorial service for the teacher who remained a major influence in their
lives years after high school.
Volk died of natural causes on Dec. 30 at the age of 56.
Barbara Volk Ibbotson, her younger sister, said Volk sometimes wondered whether
she had devoted too much time to her job and not enough to her personal life.
Ibbotson said she tried to reassure her: "I told her, 'I'm only a mother of
three. You were a mother to thousands.' "
Amy Welty Peterson, a 1987 graduate of Thomas Jefferson High School in Dallas,
is among those thousands. She considers Volk her all-time favorite teacher.
"The final exam in her class was multiple choice, but it wasn't over music
theory or the curriculum," recalled Peterson, now 41 and a stay-at-home mom in
Idaho. "The test was designed to find out how much you knew about your
classmates.
"What was so-and-so's nickname? Who played what prank on whom during a field
trip? I don't think her true gift was singing. It was teaching you how to
communicate and how to connect with people."
Volk also was an accomplished pianist and writer. She taught mostly in Dallas
and finished up her career as choir director at Carrollton ISD's Newman Smith
High School in 2003.
"To me, she is not replaceable," said Trey Randal, a 1986 Thomas Jefferson
graduate. He is now a 42-year-old technical writer in Dallas. "No one else like her will ever come along."
Volk was the kind of teacher who taught you to stand up straight and radiate
self-confidence. If you got in trouble, you knew you could call her to bail you
out, no questions asked.
She understood high school students. On Fridays, she advised them not to do
stupid things over the weekend and to come back safe on Monday.
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"She could tell if something was going on in your life and she cared enough to
counsel you about it," Randal recalled. "I always had trouble with math and she
was always concerned for me about it."
Ibbotson, who received touching e-mails from former students, parents and
teachers, is gearing up for Saturday's memorial service.
Even though eight years separated them, they were as close as sisters could be.
They finished each other's sentences. They took trips together, once boating
down the Amazon River in South America.
After she retired, Volk wrote a college textbook on how to be a good choir
director. She did some vocal coaching and served as a judge at choir contests.
Sometimes, she helped out with the youth choir at Highland Park United
Methodist.
"She stayed in the music world," her sister said. "It was everything to her."
Remembrances from students
Your sister was put on this earth specifically to help me through the most
difficult period in my life. My mother died when I was very young and your
sister was a mom, sister, coach, teacher, counselor, taxi driver, comedian and
friend. I cannot think about my days in school without her name and wonderful
smile being at the front of my memories. –Eric McHenry
Ms. Volk was the greatest teacher I ever had&hellipand that includes college and
graduate work. Almost 30 years have passed since I was her student, and not a
day goes by when a fond memory of her does not come to mind.– Phil Robertson
A strong competitor and friend
Peggy O'Neill, a retired choir director who taught at R.L. Turner High School in
Carrollton, was Volk's close friend for many years. They also became friendly
competitors when Volk left Thomas Jefferson and became choir director at Newman
Smith.
Volk's students always won top awards in statewide choir competitions.
"I never wanted my kids to follow hers during a competition," O'Neill said. "Her
kids performed with the greatest degree of perfection I have ever heard.
Sometimes you would have to tell her, 'Liz, I think that's perfect enough.'."
Volk graduated from Highland Park High School and continued her education at
SMU, eventually earning bachelor's and master's degrees in music education.
Compared to most of her students, she came from a privileged background. But she
never acted like it, O'Neill said.
"Liz had been a foreign exchange student in Africa in college and she saw things
there that really opened her eyes," O'Neill said. "She didn't have an ounce of
racism in her."
Once, before a choir trip to Austria, she found an expert traveler to teach her
students how to properly pack a suitcase. And she dragged out china and
silverware to show them proper dining etiquette.
"Sometimes I would do something like lick my knife just to make her yelp,"
O'Neill said.
Loved by parents, colleagues
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Liz Volk laughs it up with her students and a faculty member at Newman Smith
High School.
View larger Photography Photo store Liz was one of my favorite people and
mentor. I student-taught with her at Newman Smith just before I graduated from
UNT. She has always been one of my biggest influences. We never lost touch after
all these years. –Steve DeCrow, assistant choir director at Lewisville High
School
My son, Patrick, was blessed to have been under Liz's direction at Newman Smith.
She was so much more than a teacher to Patrick – she was best friend and a
mentor like none he has ever had. Patrick called Liz his "Angel of Music," and
gave her a silver angel charm bracelet while he was still in high school.
–Debbie Pevehouse
"What is a teacher?"
Listening to former students, colleagues and family talk about Volk leads one to
ponder the question, "What is a teacher?"
Volk was a Christian and she lived out her faith. Christmas carols and other
hymns were an important part of her program. High school students, beginning to
search for their places in the world, sensed that she was genuine. She tried to
bring them together, make them feel good about themselves and care about each
other. She fought against high school as a tribalized collection of subcultures.
"She would have no idea whether a kid could sing or not," said Randal, her
former student at Thomas Jefferson. "If you needed a place to belong, she would
pull you in."
Her choir program attracted football players, band students and kids who were
never involved in other extra-curricular activities.
"The one thing every culture has is music," said Ibbotson. "If you find the
music, you can bridge cultures. And that's what Liz did."
Denton Record Chronicle - January 15, 2010
Submitted by Edward Lynn
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