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1948 The Lion's Roar
Yearbook of Carrollton High School
Carrollton, Dallas Co., Texas
Senior Class

Carrollton
Band IV; Football II; Basketball II; Vice President 4-H Club; Baseball; Senior Favorite '47, '48

 

 

Milburn and Sylvia Gravley

 

ARTICLES


The Carrollton Chronicle, May 31, 1957
 

 

Ex-mayor back in office at Carrollton's insistence

The Dallas Morning News - Monday, June 17, 1996
Author: Marice Richter, Staff Writer of The Dallas Morning News
 
CARROLLTON - Two years ago, Milburn Gravley decided he had done enough civic duty. After 12 years on the City Council, including eight as mayor, he was ready to turn over the reins of leadership to someone else.

His retirement turned out to be short-lived. Now, the man casually regarded as "Mr. Carrollton" is back at his old desk in the mayor's office.

His return was precipitated by events of the past eight months, the most tumultuous and divisive period that Mr. Gravley says he can remember in his 65 years as a Carrollton resident.

Triggering the turmoil was the city's attempt to clean up and redevelop the Interstate 35E corridor, in part by more strictly enforcing business zoning there.

That move prompted an unexpected backlash from business owners and operators, which led to the April recall of Mayor Gary Blanscet and six City Council members.

Then there was the loss to Lewisville of a 2,567-acre tract owned by the family of former Dallas Cowboys owner H.R. "Bum" Bright. Plans call for the tract, formerly part of tiny neighboring Hebron, to be developed with expensive homes, and Carrollton had hoped to annex the land and reap the expected tax bonanza.

Criticism of the city's loss of that property contributed to the abrupt resignation in April of Carrollton's city manager, Dan Johnson .

The cumulative upheaval drew Mr. Gravley back into politics.

"I wasn't ever expecting to come back," he said. "But with everything that was happening, people across the community urged me to come back, so I decided to run again."

Mr. Gravley captured 70.28 percent of the vote in the May 4 mayoral election.

He sees his victory as a vote of confidence for his straightforward style, and he's wasted no time getting down to business. He's convened a meeting with business operators in the freeway corridor and initiated the search for a city manager.

Many challenges lie ahead, he said, but the most daunting could be restoring residents' confidence in their city government.

"We've never had a recall previous to this one," Mr. Gravley said. "But now it's time to put the past behind us and do some healing."

Community leaders said no one is better suited for the task than Mr. Gravley.

"
Milburn Gravley is perfect for what Carrollton needs right now," said Ken Marchant, a state representative and former Carrollton mayor. "He should be roaming around Colorado in his Winnebago, but the city needed him and he was gracious enough to step in and help out.

"He has a long history of involvement in this community, and I know a lot of people feel better having him back."

Jimmy Logan, the automotive shop owner who initiated the recall referendum, said Mr. Gravley is probably the best-regarded person in Carrollton.

"It's good to have him back," Mr. Logan said. "He listens to people and works with people."

Jim Schouten, who served on the City Council from 1992 to 1994 and was elected again in May, said Mr. Gravley's return seems to have restored a sense of calm to Carrollton.

"It's like there's been a collective sigh of relief," he said. "Milburn has years of experience in leadership of this community, and in all that time I don't think he's ever given anyone the impression that he couldn't be trusted or was looking out for anything but the best interests of this community."

Without a doubt, the 65-year-old mayor has a vested interest in Carrollton. The great-grandson of A.W. Perry, one of Carrollton's first settlers, he was born in Carrollton and grew up on his family's farm. He attended Carrollton High School and Southern Methodist University and married Sylvia McInnish, also the descendant of a pioneer Carrollton family. They have three children and six grandchildren.

Mr. Gravley has served on dozens of civic boards and committees, including the Dallas County School Board, the Carrollton Planning and Zoning Board and the American Red Cross. He is a member of the Metrocrest Chamber of Commerce and chairman of the Trinity River Authority Advisory Board.

He's received numerous awards and honors, including being named Metrocrest Citizen of the Year in 1989.

For many years, he owned and operated a hardware store in Carrollton's historic district. He retired in 1981 and first ran for City Council in 1982.

"I always thought that politics and owning a business don't mix," he said. "Lots of people encouraged me to run for office, but I wouldn't do it.

"After I retired, several people asked me, `What's your excuse now?' I didn't have one, so I ran for the council."

As a former small-business owner, Mr. Gravley understands the concerns that freeway corridor business owners had about a zoning enforcement plan aimed at redeveloping the area. Many expressed fear that the plan would force them out of business.

At the same time, he recognizes that improving the corridor's appearance is in the city's best interest. He was serving on the council when the freeway ordinance was adopted in 1986. For various reasons, including the downturn in the economy in the late 1980s, it was not enforced.

"When the ordinance was adopted, no one had any disagreement about wanting to improve the condition and appearance of the freeway corridor," he said. "The problem stemmed from the way in which the city chose to go about doing it.

"There was a real lack of communication there."

Mr. Gravley promises that history won't repeat itself during his tenure.

"There is going to be a lot more dialogue going on at City Hall," he said. "We're not going to fight. We're going to sit down and talk and try to work things out.

CONGRATULATIONS

Dallas Morning News, The (TX) - Friday, November 28, 2003
 
Former mayor earns

Mason distinction

Milburn R. Gravley, lifelong resident and former mayor of Carrollton, has been named a 33rd Degree Scottish Rite Mason. This honor is bestowed by the Ancient and Accepted Scottish Rite of Freemasonry, Southern Jurisdiction of the United States, on individuals who distinguish themselves by outstanding service in public life and in the fraternity of Masonry.

Mr. Gravley owned and operated Gravley Hardware Co. in Old Downtown Carrollton for many years before he retired. He and his wife, Sylvia, have been active in civic affairs in the Carrollton-Farmers Branch area for many years. In addition to his service as Carrollton's mayor for 12 years, he served on the Carrollton Planning and Zoning Commission for eight years. He has been involved in the Metrocrest Chamber of Commerce, the Rotary Club, Texas Municipal League, governing board of RHD Memorial Medical Center, and various other civic commissions and boards.

The city of Carrollton honored him in 2002 by naming one of its office buildings after him and his wife. The Metrocrest Chamber of Commerce named him Citizen of the Year in 1989. The city of Farmers Branch honored him and his wife with a Community Appreciation Dinner in 2000.

He is a past master of James A. Smith Masonic Lodge in Farmers Branch, a past patron of the Order of the Eastern Star, and a member of Carrollton Masonic Lodge. He was honored with the Golden Trowel award in 1993 for service to his Masonic Lodge. He served as district deputy grand master for the Grand Lodge of Texas in 1973. The Scottish Rite Masonic Bodies named him a knight commander of the Court of Honor in 1991.
 

 

OBITUARY
 
MILBURN RAY GRAVLEY

Gravley, Milburn Ray A descendant of the founding family of Carrollton, passed away on Saturday morning, October 13, 2012, at the age of 81. He was the great grandson of Alexander Wilson Perry. Milburn had been battling cancer since February. Besides being Mayor of Carrollton for 12 years, he served on the City Council, and numerous civic boards and committees. Milburn received many awards and honors, including being named Metrocrest Citizen of the Year in 1989. He received awards and recognitions from every committee and organization he served. Milburn was currently serving as Chairman of the Trinity River Authority, member of the Valwood Improvement Board, Metrocrest Chamber of Commerce, and Old Downtown Carrollton Board. Milburn Ray Gravley was born on January 3, 1931, the youngest of nine. He was preceded in death by his parents, two brothers and four sisters. He is survived by his wife, Sylvia McInnish Gravley; daughter, Lynda K. Gravley, two sons, Gary Gravley and wife Amanda, and Alan Gravley; six grandchildren, Cristi Wade, Casey Wade, Lori Davis & Randy, Matthew Gravley and Megan, Nicole Gravley-Greenman and Chad, and Christopher Gravley; four step-grandchildren, Richard Anderson, Ashley Anderson, Kristen Wallace and Preslee Wallace; four great grandchildren, Madison, Sydnee, and Reece Davis, Juliet Gravley-Greenman; two brothers-Joe Gravley and Virginia, Wilton Gravley and Mary Helen; many nieces and nephews. Visitation will be Oct. 18, 6-8pm at First Baptist Church, 2400 N. Josey Lane, Carrollton, TX 75006 Funeral services will be, Oct. 19, 1:00pm at First Baptist Church Masonic Rites will be immediately following at Perry Cemetery.

Submitted by Edward Lynn Williams


CIVIC LEADER SERVED AS CARROLLTON MAYOR

Milburn Ray Gravley was active in Carrollton civic affairs for more than half a century, with service that included 12 years as mayor.
Mr. Gravley, 81, died Saturday of complications of cancer at Texas Health Presbyterian Hospital, Plano.
Visitation will be from 6 to 8 p.m. Thursday at First Baptist Church of Carrollton, where services will be at 1 p.m. Friday. He will be buried with Masonic rites in the Perry Cemetery in Carrollton.
"His main focus was the community - always," said his wife, Sylvia Gravley of Carrollton. "He just believed in serving his community.
"He just simply loved the life he lived; he said that many time," she said. "He always thought that life was a gift - co do good and cherish every moment."
Born in Carrollton, Mr. Gravley grew up on the family farm. He was the great-grandson of Alexander Wilson Perry, a Carrollton pioneer.
Mr. Gravley graduated from Carrollton High School and attended Southern Methodist University. He owned and operated Gravley Hardware Co. in Carrollton's Historic district for many years until he retired in 1981.
He was deeply involved with Carrollton for years but did not run for public office until 1982. His non-elected service included being acting city secretary in 1957 and a member of a panel that reviewed the city charter in 1968.
"I always thought that politics and owning a business didn't mix," he recalled in 1996.
"Lots of people encouraged me to run for office, but I wouldn't do it.
"After I retired, several people asked me, "What's your excuse now?  I didn't have one, so I ran for the council.
In 1982, Mr. Gravley was elected to the City Council, where he served and was elected mayor in 1986. He left office in 1994 but felt the call to run for mayor again in 1996.
He was drawn back to politics by business owners' concerns about plans to revitalize Carrollton's Interstate 35E corridor.
He received more than 70 percent of the vote for mayor in the May 1996 election. He served two terms as mayor before retiring from elected office a second time.
Mr. Gravley served on dozens of civic boards and committees, including the Dallas County School Board, the Carrollton Planning and Zoning Board and the American Red Cross.
At the time of his death, he was chairman of the Trinity River Authority Advisory Board, a member of Valwood Improvement board, the Metrocrest Chamber of Commerce and the Old Downtown Carrollton Association board.
His numerous awards included being named the Metrocrest Citizen of the Year in 1989. The Gravley Building in Carrollton is named in his honor. He was a 33rd-degree mason.
In addition to his wife, Mr. Gravley is survived by a daughter, Lynda Gravley of Allen; two sons, Gary Gravley of Irving and Alan Gravley of Carrollton; two brothers, Wilton Gravley of Dallas and Joe Gravley of De Kalb; six grandchildren; and four great-grandchildren.
Memorials may be made to The Scottish Rite Hospital for Children or the youth fund at First Baptist Church of Carrollton.

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